He would need to shape up. He'd have to get a job. I can't support us both. There is just no way so it maybe easier for him to stay where he is at and live off her but I don't think that's what he was aiming for originally or maybe it was. He did lie a lot. Trust is broken now. Honesty out the window. I guess I'll just see what happens. For now I'm trying to print enough of this stuff off to get me throught this weekend.
Anikaca, it sound's like you are being very strong with your situation. Cheating hurts so much and it is a choice that an individual chooses to make, we cannot easily forgive those who bring this much pain and grief to us. Just remember this fact whenever you think of him, remember the pain of what he did and know that you are better off without and can support yourself. You are a strong woman, you lived without this person in your life before just fine. You will miss him, I guarantee you that. But I also guarantee you it will get easier as more time passes, time is the ultimate healing. Its great your parents are letting you stay with them, have they offered any emotional support to the situation? I think you need to read the article on detaching and start following the steps. Could you really rebuild trust with him after what he did? The things you said are ALL choices he himself has to commit to and unfortunately you have no control of at the moment.
We are here for you though, keep us updated!
