Embarrassing my daughter

[Baylor218]

My x has uBPD.  I had my kids Over the weekend, and my 10 year daughter needed a flower to bring to school.  One of my other children had a soccer tournament that was 90 min from my house so we were gone a lot during the days.  So on Sunday, I asked my gf if she could go to a nursery and buy a flower for me. She did and daughter brought it to school today.

The problem is my x found out about it.  So she bought my daughter a flower today and told my 10 year old she had to bring that one school and not use the one my gf bought.  I got 5 phone calls from my x in a 15 min span.  To her, I'm not capable of during the kids homework and I broke the rules in our divorce.

I'm embarrassed for my daughter.  Should I email teacher and try to explain it or let it go?

[DreamGirl]

My x has uBPD.  I had my kids Over the weekend, and my 10 year daughter needed a flower to bring to school.  One of my other children had a soccer tournament that was 90 min from my house so we were gone a lot during the days.  So on Sunday, I asked my gf if she could go to a nursery and buy a flower for me. She did and daughter brought it to school today.

The problem is my x found out about it.  So she bought my daughter a flower today and told my 10 year old she had to bring that one school and not use the one my gf bought.  I got 5 phone calls from my x in a 15 min span.  To her, I'm not capable of during the kids homework and I broke the rules in our divorce.

What did your daughter say about it?

[Baylor218]

I didn't talk to her, my x says her phone is broken so I can only talk to my kids on speaker phone.  So I didn't want to make my 10 year old feel uncomfortable.  My x did say she called because my 10 year old wanted me to know.

[DreamGirl]

What a pain.

She's being difficult because she's struggling with the new girlfriend.

Truth? Your daughter is learning that talking to her mom about your GF is going to result in drama.

Did she give a reason as to why the flower needs replacing - I mean did she outright say that the flower bought by your GF is crossing some kind of line?

[Baylor218]

That's exactly what she said.  Tell your gf not to do anything for my kids.  I told her not to make a big deal about.  She said I was then starting yelling so I hung up