Slipped again

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

I slipped again. About 3 weeks ago my uBPDexgf calls me because she found a stray dog and needed my help since I love dogs. She wanted me to take him to the vet to get scanned for a microchip, which I did. Ever since then I have been taking care of the dog. And since then she has been wanting me to let her see the dog.

Yesterday she sends a text asking to see the dog; this was at 4 in the afternoon. This kind of set me off because it’s late in the day and I don’t want to take the dog to her house, much less see her. So, we kind of got into an argument, and the subject of the dog was no longer being discussed. I unexpectedly told her to just go *f* the replacement, and hung up on her. I texted back an apology after that. Well, now she starts blowing up my phone, so I blocked her. Over the course of the next 4 hours or so, she tried to call me over 120 times.

She sends me lengthy texts at this point basically saying she isn’t sleeping around, that I’m treating her terribly, that karma will get me for how I am treating her, and she pities me. These texts were still coming about 2 this morning.

[State85]

I slipped again. About 3 weeks ago my uBPDexgf calls me because she found a stray dog and needed my help since I love dogs. She wanted me to take him to the vet to get scanned for a microchip, which I did. Ever since then I have been taking care of the dog. And since then she has been wanting me to let her see the dog.

Yesterday she sends a text asking to see the dog; this was at 4 in the afternoon. This kind of set me off because it’s late in the day and I don’t want to take the dog to her house, much less see her. So, we kind of got into an argument, and the subject of the dog was no longer being discussed. I unexpectedly told her to just go *f* the replacement, and hung up on her. I texted back an apology after that. Well, now she starts blowing up my phone, so I blocked her. Over the course of the next 4 hours or so, she tried to call me over 120 times.

She sends me lengthy texts at this point basically saying she isn’t sleeping around, that I’m treating her terribly, that karma will get me for how I am treating her, and she pities me. These texts were still coming about 2 this morning.

[Lucky Jim]

Hey State85, If you pull on a tiger's tail, you're likely to get bitten.  Unsure why you wanted to get involved in the drama of the stray dog, but now it seems like you have your hands full.  Those w/BPD are tough to shake, as you are learning.  Lucky Jim