https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=219892.0Quote from: BorisAcusio on Today at 06:07:29 AM
Quote from: Undone123 on Today at 04:20:34 AM
oh indeed she is disordered.
Yes she treats people awfully. But I don't believe she wakes up in the morning and intends to be that way.
Does that matter? They completely know that their actions will deeply hurt the nons. They know it and do it anyways.
They know their actions... . But I don't believe they understand the extent it will hurt. They don't have that capacity to empathise, because they are wrapped up in their own inner turmoil
Well, my exBPDgf watched her husband breaking down, crying like a baby and literally knocking himself out with booze after he discovered she's having an affair. Even had to call the ambulance. The guy was a bodybuilder, the alpha male type that never shows emotions or cry, even on his beloved father's funeral. A great father, provider with strong moral compass.
This BPD witch tore him apart and spit him. Few months later she did exactly the same with me and her paramour, lying to both of us. No remorese, guilt, shame or empathy. Just the feeling of entitlement, like she has the right to make herself content at any cost, on your expense or others, it doesn't matter.
So in religious terms, they are surely NOT evil, but in everyday perspective, yes they are.
