Borderline ex asking to return stuff

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Just got a message from ex telling me I left tax papers in his car... .

He's asking if I want them or should he throw them away... .

I can always get another copy again right?

Should I ignore this as an attempt to break NC?

[Hurtbeyondrepair27]

Just got a message from ex telling me I left tax papers in his car... .

He's asking if I want them or should he throw them away... .

I can always get another copy again right?

Should I ignore this as an attempt to break NC?

[Hurtbeyondrepair27]

I didn't have answers at the time... tried to get friends to communicate with him... and he

was threatening to throw away right then. So I had to message him when I really didn't want to.

It was through fb and unless you have an ongoing message with him or are friends with him you cannot

message him. I didn't now what to do... and didn't want my tax info out there.

[Hurtbeyondrepair27]

Now I'm hurting again  and feel like I was literally backed into a corner

and forced to talk to him with no way out.

[Popcorn71]

I understand how you feel.  I had a similar incident recently.  I didn't reply.

Don't feel too bad.  You didn't intentionally break NC.  Just go back to NC now.

Good luck 

[Hurtbeyondrepair27]

It was tax info... so I didn't want mine and my daughters social floating around

That sucked so badly. I went back and read his fb, and he was telling everyone what a C***

I was... . and accusing me of crap I didn't do.

So hurtful. ugh.

[Hurtbeyondrepair27]

He didn't apologize anything... now I'm struggling with texting him:

"What no sorry?" I am so p***ed he still hasn't said he was

sorry for that.