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I want to thank the people on this board. You were a beacon of hope in my confused darkness. The last direct contact with my ex-parner was in June. She then attempted to file a restraining order against me. The court found (5k later) that her complaint had no merit. I was not suprised but had a lot of anguish over the trauma. She has found a new man. I pitty him. She then unblocked me on facebook! Well I will never contact her again. And that feels okay. There has been a shift inside me and I feel calm and resolved with the situation. No more nights crying and feeling helpless. I am now at peace.
I wish the same for you.
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Hi tsheater,
I'm so glad to hear that you are at peace, and not crying and feeling helpless anymore. It warms my heart to know that the site benefited you. You have been through a lot, and I see only 2 posts, so it looks like you were reading a lot.
Thank you for checking in. It's always great to hear of good outcomes and successes. We're here whenever you want to post again.
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