Hey guys!
I usually write either to share experiences or to ask for help. Today I want to share something nice. Well, they tried to trigger me, but I managed to detach. Got a bit nervous, but all ended pretty well.
Background story (I had posted on this, asking for advice), I have an apt that I rent. The president of the building is in a campaign to get me for around 3 years. I suspect shes BPD/ NPD. She harassed me, bullied me and demanded many things that are unreasonable (and illegal).
She managed to get others to back her, so the last meeting was a disaster, they yelled at me like maniacs. I felt I was being attacked by a pack of hyenas. They all (5 people) seemed to enjoy seeing me in distress. I tried to be calm back then but I was dragged into losing my temper. Its not easy to remain cool when you are under attack for a period of time by a group.
Today I got a phone call from one of them on the president´s behaf. Actually I saw the presidents phone number on my ID, but it was her "help". She was by her side giving instructions
This other lady played nice and tried to put me against the only one there who backs me up somehow. Told me that my "friend" says Im the devil.
Im well aware of the BPD "divide and conquer" tactic. I merely answered that its ok, I dont care if people hate me or love me, actually... . My ego is strong enough to take criticism or flatery... . I said it in a kinder way, as a normal statement, not related to her and she seemed to be caught off-guard. She kept throwing baits at me, but I didnt comment.
It may be stupid, but Im proud I managed to stay cool and detach from the forming drama. They seem to crave it.
I thank all of you who posted, I learnt a lot and Im sure Id be very stressed if it werent for you all... .
