Timebombtango, that is so sad and I am sorry you are dealing with all that. I can totally relate to a lot of it, especially the one about the restaurants! I know that if I choose a restaurant, it is guaranteed that the food will be inedible, the service will be horrible, the atmosphere unbearable, the drinks not made right, etc. And of course we will never be able to go back there again. The list of places that we can never go to again is so long, I don't even try to make suggestions anymore so the list doesn't get longer.
Well thank you responding firstly. So happy to know im not alone.in this. I actually NEVER make suggestions. This is how it typically goes.
Him: want to go to town.to grab a bite.
Me: if youd like to thats fine.
Him: i wouldnt have asked if i didnt want to
Me: ok ill get dressed... or insert what needs doing here.
Him: ok hurry im starving.
Me: ill try
H: well only if you want to go,
M:sure why not
H: that sounds like your only going for me
M: no id like to go
H: well i just think you dont so never mind
M: ok whichever youd like is fine
H: id like to go thats why i asked u
M: and i agreed to go
H: but do you really want to
M: sure... . id like to
Lather rinse repeat 20 rounds till.finally we are in the car on our way towards food
Him: where u wanna go
Me: anywhere is fine.dear
Him: TOTALLY WOW YOU IDIOT TONE: you have no.idea what you want?
Me: im not picky i can eat anywhere.
Him : getting more aggitated and says : god would you just pick somewhere please.
Me: mexican place
Him:eyerolls followed with THE ONE THING I DONT WANT... OR MY STOMACH IS.EDGY OR ITLL BE CROWDED OR INSERT REASON HERE.
ME:OK PIZZA PLACE:
H: sigh i.guess just wasnt really wanting pizza.
Me: ok then what were you thinking.
Him: i have no.idea
Me: well how about xyz... .
Himractically yelling ... no i told you my stomach is edgy
Me: well anywhere is fine.
Him: screaming slamming his hand on stearing wheel... . i.hate.this.i.hate this. Deciding where to eat is NOT THAT DIFFICULT MY NAME.
Me: im sorry i made suggestions and you decided thats not a.good idea,im out of ideas. Maybe.if i knew what youd like to eat i could help.
Him: well ill just drive around.till we find a place.
So we.drive around and it starts all over again,
Im hypo glicemic so ive learned to carry crackers or a peppermint because its 9 ouy of.ten.times that its 45 mins to an hour of the above merry go round before food is in my mouth.