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Author Topic: life coach and 2 weeks after a break up. (most peace so far.)  (Read 458 times)
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« on: July 16, 2014, 05:26:17 PM »

Sure ill be happy to share.

My life coach just heard me talk about my goals.

and then hit just emailed me back a paper to fill out. Its more about a accountability, and i can reach out and ask advice and a question.

i have 3 goals.

1. Meditation. <---- this has been the biggest help. I am working on inner peace, inner joy, inner love. And most of all connection to God. The place i got my lessons from on meditation from are Self Realization Fellowship. (these are powerful lessons, about building and understanding ones relationship with God, oneself, and with others. ) it is about Realizing oneself.

2. Career goal: I am looking to pick up and take my career to the next level. For all of my adult 20's I've been in a relationship. its time to build a relationship with myself. as corny as that may sound, its the strongest truth i can come up with. it doesn't mean dont have friends. on the contrary, it means, respect and honor your friends more, it means know when to say by and retract to your inner peace and home. vs. ... always staying up till 2 am 4 am drinking example. i know not everyone does that... just saying...

3. new relationship: on this one my life coach asked me to identity a girl that may be 4 x better for me... i wrote down what i think that may be. meditation, fitness, and career support where there. as well. as ... just not being negative.

my x girlfriend is at lady gaga concert tonight in houston. .im happy for her. I have her on spotify  and see her listening to lady gaga. this little connection to her... is plenty. its like... .a omniscient, innocent update from her. we are not friends anywhere else. like Facebook, twitter etc, i dont see her public snap chats... i just occasionally see a song she listens to ...

Im in a better place, the meditation has helped. a lot. can't stress that enough. now to pick up the speed in my career. with Gods help, i know things are going to get better.

Do I think we will get back together? ... . more no than yes... I am scheduled to talk to her august 26th... when that day comes, I'm going to tell her, i just want to heal... and i want her to heal... i think thats a good place to start. i have no day dreams about getting back with her... my dreams are only on healing.

-sculptor
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