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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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Author Topic: How many of you were deleted/blocked by the family?  (Read 434 times)
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« on: July 20, 2014, 11:53:56 PM »

While you were still together?  I have. By the sisters, who also display the same BPD and narcissistic characteristics... .stemming from the narcissist mother cheating on the father multiple times in their early years. At first I was told I was a "great guy" and "man of good character" by the sisters... .after a year, I was deleted and blocked off facebook for completely childish reasons.

Talk about awkward family get togethers!  A total nightmare!  And of course, my uBPD ex fiance blamed me for not fixing it. I had absolutely no idea how... .other than beg for forgiveness and give into to their manipulation... .which of course, wasnt going to happen.  It was hard, because I was doing my best to support my ex fiance when she was on/off with her sisters.  They could go months without speaking... .then be the best of friends (but all the awhile talking bad about each other)

Its weird to be talking to somebody in real life that is smiling and engaged in conversation with you across the dinner table, all the while knowing that they hate you enough to block you on social media.  What world was I living in, really?  So glad now that that is over!  My life has gotten a lot more quiet. Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« Reply #1 on: July 21, 2014, 12:18:37 PM »

I never added his crazy family. They hated me from day 1.

Every so often they'd insult me, then send me a friend request a few days later. I never responded.

I know what you mean by BPD/NPD traits in the family members as well. Home environment plays such a key role, it's hard to think that only our exes came out of those homes with a few problems. Seems everyone comes out of there messed up.

But yes, I'd get the silent treatment for all kinds of things, and expected to apologize for stuff I never did nor fully understood my role in.

Crazy, crazy people.
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