Hi Lucky One,
I agree it is scary. Many times, I have escalated a bad situation based on my responses to my pwBPD. Through my therapy, I learned to not take their behavior personally. It is very hard to do that sometimes. I can easily do that when my pwBPD's behavior is so absurd. Other times when says and does certain things, I tend to take it personally. On those occasions, I believe it has to do with my own fears and insecurities.
Thanks for that - and I fully agree.
That's why I've started working on myself, as well.
I've only been a member of BPD Family for a month and learning so much, so many new things from this site, and also especially from you guys, with your own unique experiences.
Wishing you, only the very best. Thank you.
