I have try to talk and explain to people about the person i live with ( my wife) the emotional rollercoster it seen that i am on interacting with her, the anger, the adult in control of very one and everything in front of others then with me a temper tantrum little kid home with me. i need people to talk to who is or who has dealt someone like my wife.
Welcome Gmanaplus! I stopped trying to explain the insanity to the blissfully uninitiated in my life. I simply explain that "she has deep issues that prevent her from having stable relationships and she needs help" or sometimes I go with the simple, "she is f___ing nuts."
I have found this community here to be a most excellent place to vent and share the stories and scars of a BPD experience. All of us here have been through the ups and downs that are so hard to explain to people whe have never gotten lost in a BPD forrest. I look forward to hearing of your experience.