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« on: November 08, 2014, 06:19:31 AM »

Was pretty bad today good news police investigation that i didnt know about cleared me still a storm to sought out could lose my family i looked at her and frowned said i talked to them she nearly burst into tears i shrugged an said its just one of those things it isnt the worse though I had a BPD partner they went pretty glose to doing the same an leaving me to kill myself dont care if i die anymore now an the kids are a bit older so it doesnt matter so much
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« Reply #1 on: November 08, 2014, 07:18:18 AM »

  rough day for you.  Their lies can be so damaging to us.  You get tired sometimes of defending yourself and your character.  Please stay strong. No matter how old your children are they will need you. They NEED a non BPD parent to talk to.  I didnt realize how I needed my non BPD parent to talk to before he died.   My BPD/NPD mom has called the police twice on me and Child protective services on me once before telling pathological lies in order to hurt me and to take my family away from me.   Their lies can cross the line and make it dangerous to interact with them.  Its very damaging to our own self worth too, to think that this person who is supposed to love you is hurting you.  Affects our self esteem and causes depression.  Please hold on and dont succumb to their evil sickness.   Stay strong and know that there are others out there that "get" you and your situation.   
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« Reply #2 on: November 08, 2014, 01:13:16 PM »

Hi SlyQQ

Was pretty bad today good news police investigation that i didnt know about cleared me still a  storm to sought out

could lose my family

Could you tell us a bit more about what's going on here and why you feel you could lose your family? You say the police investigation cleared you, did your partner or someone else accuse you of stuff you didn't do?

it isnt the worse though I had a BPD partner they went pretty glose to doing the same an leaving me to kill myself

dont care if i die anymore now an the kids are a bit older so it doesnt matter so much

Your above quote concerns me. How are you feeling now? Have you felt this way before like it doesn't matter if you would die? Your kids might be a bit older but I think they would still care whether you die or not and I think they would prefer for you to stick around a lot longer.
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« Reply #3 on: November 12, 2014, 08:05:46 PM »

Hi slyq,

I just wanted to chime in with the other post responses and tell you how sorry I am to hear of your troubles. I agree with Kwarmina, I am concerned also about your statement:
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dont care if i die anymore now an the kids are a bit older so it doesnt matter so much

 

It does matter! You matter! Please let us know how you are doing!

Peace and blessings.
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