Replaced

[KeepOnGoing]

Oh well. It's official. I have been so replaced and her idealization is in full force. Yes, I looked at the social media. And I'm actually glad that I saw what I saw. Sometimes I think this helps me move on. It just reconfirms everything you all have been saying here. Thank you for any support.

[Algae]

Oh well. It's official. I have been so replaced and her idealization is in full force. Yes, I looked at the social media. And I'm actually glad that I saw what I saw. Sometimes I think this helps me move on. It just reconfirms everything you all have been saying here. Thank you for any support.

[KeepOnGoing]

LOLOLOL, WOW, Algae, that is awesome. Put a big smile on my face... .although I realize it was a warning.

You know, it's just so hard to believe. She just seems so gone. So into somebody else, that it just doesn't seem fathomable that she would ever be back. Not to mention that when she would tell me stories about people from her past (no I did not pick up on the red flags) I would always say to her that people usually come back around. She would always say no.

Anyway, thanks for the laugh / warning. I needed that.

[Chasing_Ghosts]

that it just doesn't seem fathomable that she would ever be back.

You learn to fathom the unfathomable with a pwBPD... and most of the time you end up with a migraine.

What im saying is she lied to you about people coming back around or it was a fact in the moment because she felt that way since feelings=facts to a pwBPD. Nothing is consistent and itd bode well to say that you can expect shell be back at some point... if not only for validation and triangulation. *shudders* 

[KeepOnGoing]

Uh boy. Just doesn't feel possible at this point since she has been silent for four months now. Not even a kiss my a... on my birthday. I guess time will tell.  Thank you for the support.