This morning I was black now I'm white

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

My exbf spoke to my sister this morning he told her how much he loves me and he thinks about me every minute of the day. He texted me a little while ago and asked how I was.  Just some pleasant casual texting nothing about us. He told her that he is only dating someone not in a relationship with her and he will never listen to her when it comes to seeing me because I'm his true love. This kinda stinks because I'm weak right now. Help!

[Left broken and confused]

My exbf spoke to my sister this morning he told her how much he loves me and he thinks about me every minute of the day. He texted me a little while ago and asked how I was.  Just some pleasant casual texting nothing about us. He told her that he is only dating someone not in a relationship with her and he will never listen to her when it comes to seeing me because I'm his true love. This kinda stinks because I'm weak right now. Help!

[Lolster]

Sounds like the new r/s is going down the pan and you are being put back on standby. 

Stay strong.

[Raybo48]

My exbf spoke to my sister this morning he told her how much he loves me and he thinks about me every minute of the day. He texted me a little while ago and asked how I was.  Just some pleasant casual texting nothing about us. He told her that he is only dating someone not in a relationship with her and he will never listen to her when it comes to seeing me because I'm his true love. This kinda stinks because I'm weak right now. Help!

If I told you how many times I heard that specific line... "I love you and miss you and think about you everyday" I'd be a wealthy guy.  DON'T FALL FOR IT... Stay strong!

[Left broken and confused]

I have decided to take a night off from thinking. I'm just exhausted with all of this. So far he hasn't said anything about us to me just pleasant conversation but I stopped answering his text a few hours ago. My emotions were all over the place and I just needed to block him out for now.

[Raybo48]

I have decided to take a night off from thinking. I'm just exhausted with all of this. So far he hasn't said anything about us to me just pleasant conversation but I stopped answering his text a few hours ago. My emotions were all over the place and I just needed to block him out for now.

They are intelligent  people and can sense when you are emotionally vulnerable.  They seem to have  heightened senses when it comes to that.  Blocking him out at this time when you are exhausted and emotionally spent is a good idea.