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Author Topic: Ran into exBPDgf's ex  (Read 482 times)
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« on: January 20, 2015, 10:48:11 AM »

So, it was bound to happen one day soon.

I ran into my exBPDgf's ex. I knew her when she was in the relationship with my exgf.

Polite chat about not much. Then I ask, so you know ex and I had a relationship, yes she did. Well I called it off a few months ago, she says I figured that, because ex started contacting her again. Asks, did she do a number on you? I said no, not a number (not sure what she really meant by that, maybe testing me), but I said she needs to do some serious work.

I said that whilst I didn't know what happened in their relationship, whatever behaviour she encountered, I got it too. She didn't get any better... .

Offer of coffee catch up mad for some point in the future. That's going to be very intersting.

Trying to maintain LC with the exBPD, have had a few catchups, but haven't heard from her in several weeks now. Figured she has a replacement although if she is contacting her ex again, well there's the current supply I guess.
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« Reply #1 on: January 20, 2015, 02:23:42 PM »

Trying to maintain LC with the exBPD, have had a few catchups, but haven't heard from her in several weeks now. Figured she has a replacement although if she is contacting her ex again, well there's the current supply I guess.

How did she and this ex part ways?  Good or bad terms?  Thanks for sharing this.
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