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[new_beginning]

 

I am in a co-dependent relationship with my fiancé who has bp disorder. I am here because I feel as though my life has been out of control. I want to get well and know who I am and what I want. I feel sad   my partner has left today because I asked him to go. This is something I do its a pattern I feel very alone and confused.

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[Cat Familiar]

Welcome New_Beginning,

We understand how difficult it is to be in a relationship with a person with BPD.    Please familiarize yourself with the lessons on the right. There's a lot of good information about how to manage your own responses to the challenges your partner presents. We can't cure them, but we can, through knowledge, make life better and easier.

[DreamGirl]

Hi new_beginning,

I wanted to add my welcome as well. 

What happened today?

--DG