The only thing I would say is I wonder if there couldn't be somewhat better boundaries in one respect. I wouldn't want to discuss my dating life with my ex or really hear about there's, but that would just be my reaction.
Yeah I can see this one, good point. I guess we're discussing it because we've also discussing recycling (not in those terms :P) and we're keeping each other posted on when we're deviating from what we said earlier. That's why I mentioned I had a date the last time I saw him, and he did a follow-up question. The thing is, newBF and dBPDxbf live in the same city, quite close to each other as well. He did mention he'd not want me to visit his winebar with him which makes perfect sense (and I would have never done that).
By the way, he did mention me he had kissed with a girl we both know - one of his friends. He said "I should not have done that, it was just one of those nights, but she's crying about it now because I said I don't want a r/s. I haven't heard from her in a week and she says she needs time now."
I have to 'restrain' myself from sending her a message that she's probably better off. She's such a nice girl and I'd really want to save her from all the drama, but I'm not doing it. That would be savior like behavior that I need to get rid of.
