Yesterday on another thread I commented that a large part of me has been thinking, "I'll get back to my business when I recover from this r/s and b/u."
But the reverse is likely (more) true: "I'll recover from this r/s and b/u when I get back to my business (professional and otherwise)."
So, today, while I've been on this board a bit, I've been on it a lot less than in past weeks. I'm working on my business and getting an honest sense of where I stand in terms of sales/earnings. This feels very good to get clear on the facts... .where I am in relation to where I need to be financially. I am self-employed with no support from my ex. I am a solo-prenuer without external accountability. This can be a real danger if I let myself just wallow in the b/u misery.
I gave too much time/energy/MONEY in this r/s. I hardly had a dime to give. But I gave a lot. That financial hit was bad enough. I cannot afford (nor do I want) to let my business be another casualty from this b/u. There have already been too many casualties thus far. I have to stop the bleeding.
As such, today I re-engage with my business life. :)oing this has lots of pay-offs... .financial and emotional. And it FEELS GOOD! I am thinking less about my ex as I think more about me, business, clients, see I am doing better than I thought and making commitments to moving forward.
Who has made a similar discovery? What did you do to get back on track? :)o tell. I imagine I am not alone in this
