So, my previous topic was locked because it reached the post limit and the subject was pretty much done anyway. It's here:
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=276718.0In short, after a few months of NC she started contacting me again through text after visiting the same place where I always go out. She's still with the replacement (since end of last year) as far as I know of.
I tried to reply as short as possible without much interest. This kept going on for a week or so. Then I got blocked out of nowhere and the peace returned.
Here we go againWell, peace for a week at least. Got a text message again today, apparently not blocked anymore. It was basically this: "Hey I blocked you last week because we are going on with our lives in seperate ways and I thought it was wrong to have contact. It wasn't kind to do that out of the blue. My apologies and take care. Name ex."
First of all, she started contacting me, I didn't start contacting her... .and secondly, if she thinks this way, why unblock me again and start talking again today?
Oh well, I have to say each week without contact is really making me feel better and better, I really start to feel like I'm in the end stretch of the healing! Its a great feeling. I think about her less and less, often just a few minutes a day actually. Compared to half a year ago thats one massive change! I enjoy work and hobbies again, go to the gym five times a week and have a lot of old and new friends that I hang out with and go out with during the weekends. Life's great!
Just wanted to update you people about this deal. It's kind of funny I think, they are all so alike with their childish excuses to initiate contact again. So glad to be rid of it!
