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When this is all over and done, I'm going to make a mini-bucket list.
Most of them will be cheap or even free... .I'm going to try to have some fun, try some new things, and try to learn a few things.
When that glorious day draws near, I'll post my mini bucket list. I'll probably need some accountability to make sure I don't end up on the couch watching Netflix.
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I think this is important. We spend so much time looking after others needs that its very liberating to do things just for us. It gives us back our own identity.
I went and learnt scuba diving. Something I'd always wanted to do but was never able to do.
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It's always a good thing to keep yourself busy and forget about your exBPD. I always wanted to try out cigars (I don't smoke cigarettes though), at the day when our rs ended official I smoked my first Cuban cigar ever. After one hour when I was done with the cigar I threw it in a trashcan, I said to myself time to move on and make a fresh new start.
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To be fair if netflix is calling so be it... .for now,you do what makes you feel good and 'Trailer Park Boys' got me through the early days
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