Westoneder
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
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« on: July 04, 2015, 10:05:38 AM » |
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Hello all. I am currently separated from my wife, she moved out with my teenage step daughter and our 1 year old twins. She filed for divorce day after we moved out. I am living at home with my two teenage children from a previous marriage. We both exhibit BPD traits, myself rescuer/people pleaser with some add traits as well.She has exhibited Queen/narcissistic/black white behavior. I had started this whole issue with having emotional affairs in our relationship. The last time, my 15 year old daughter found an explicit chat profile I had created, which then told my exwife about. Who sent it to both of us and my life exploded. I would do anything to try to fix any of this or get her to move back . Not even sure if that is healthy, or possible. I am in therapy, dealing with childhood issues, working on what I see in myself, and trying to be a better person and my feelings and emotions. I had the realisation that something had to be wrong with me, when I felt happy, content and that my life was wonderful and loving, great kids, great career, but still felt this emptiness and loneliness inside,no matter what changed externally. Not even sure what to do now. Watching everything go down the drain. Everything, I have worked so hard for the last eleven years, but was not working on myself, or seeing the destruction that I was causing by not being true to myself or feelings. Now she has no trust for anyone, feels a complete loss of control, can never forget or forgive. Says she will be miserable, but at least won't feel stuck.
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