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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
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« on: October 01, 2015, 06:19:35 PM »

I ended up having to text him today as someone made an offer on a car we own, and it involved bartering for motorcyles. I sent him a text about the offer, forwarded the actual text from the guy, and here goes:

Husband: Maybe you've forgotten all the promises you've broken, but I still remember.

Me:  You broke plenty of promises yourself. You are still in my mind and heart. Are you interested in either bike? Do you want to talk to the guy. (gave him guy's number)

Husband:  I did exactly what I said, which was what I was able to do with what I had to work with. You've chosen to lie to me, steal what was mine & depreciate me for my efforts. Maybe you should quit lying to yourself.

Me:  Are you going to respond to the bike offer?

Husband indicates no.

Me:  U were looking for older bikes when we were together.

Husband: I was looking for old a gl1100 which is reliable. Little dirt bikes and obsolete 450's are constant problems. What are you interested in, because you've proven repeatedly you were NEVER interested in (refers to himself in the third person) nor did you ever appreciate (again, a third person referral) in any way?

Me:  I am working.  I will tell him NO on the bikes. You are the bike expert.

Husband: We were NEVER together because all of my efforts were depreciated as NOTHING while you have continued to ignore the truth while constantly lying & stealing more from me with b.s. promises to return to me what I'd spent

Me:  I will let you know if the car sells

Husband:  Just like you keep all the rest of your b.s. promises

Me:  Whatever then. Since all my texts are met with your hateful attitude, I won't bother to text again.

Husband:  Your 70 x 70 karmic retribution for the lies, theft & depreciation of someone who was there for you until you made sure to destroy


I stopped texting.  I refuse to be his whipping girl anymore.

Feedback?  Does any of this sound familiar?

Of course, he was the one to destroy when he called the police for his shoulder getting wet.  His choice to respond in that manner.
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