Trying to, she still checks our email account together why would she be doing this if she wanted to be over forever.
Its a very complicated question and one that many seem to ask often... .I have a similar question. Both of us together can ask: why, if they want us out of their lives, is there clear activity related to us that is going on? I think that there are answers to the extent that a full discussion is a 4 beer conversation! In short, pwBPD cannot detach. They simply did not discard you and moved on with not so much as an afterthought. I have read of many accounts here where a BPD returns months and years after the fact often times picking up exactly where they left off as if nothing at all had happened. My recycles were like this... .
are you still in contact with her?
