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hi everyone, just trying to process stuff as it surfaces...
Did this type nonsense come up with others? I.E. ... Get a "good morning ... I can't wait to see you Friday, I miss you!" text from ex BPD/NPD BF ... " call me when you get a minute"... So I call him... no answer... then shoot a quick text" hey hon, just called u must be working in the yard, I'll try after work . Have a great day!:)
A second later, I get a text" are you excited about me cooking for you!"
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I paused a second... What's he talking abt?
We hadn't mentioned cooking ? Then I feel it in my gut...
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I am admittedly lost.
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Please disregard last post... Got part removed by accident
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Quote from: Marshmellow on December 10, 2015, 07:26:46 PM
Please disregard last post... Got part removed by accident
How are you today MM?
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At the blurry end of the relationship I got a:
"Hey darling. I can't wait to be with you this weekend. I have so many things I want to do with you. Hugs and kisses from your xxxxxxxx.
We were "not talking" at the time so I ignored it. A couple of days later when we were "back to normal" I asked her what that was about and she denied having sent it. My phone at the time was old and unreliable and she blamed it on that saying it must have been an old message that my phone had resent to itself so I let it slide.
The facts are she'd never sent a message like that before because none of it was in her usual words. Secondly the malfunctions on my phone were of a different kind. I believe now that she either sent it deliberately to hurt me and days later when confronted she'd changed her mind and covered it up with a lie. Or it was sent by mistake. Either way it was obviously for my replacement whom she'd been seeing for some time while still keeping me for back up.
Yes Marshmellow, I know what you are referring to.
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