I am new to this but am hopeful to reach others who can and will help me

[Depression = 72% of members]

hi ... .

I am uncertain of how this works but I am hopeful to find some guidance here ... .

[tryingtolearn21]

hi ... .

I am uncertain of how this works but I am hopeful to find some guidance here ... .

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PLEASE - NO RUN MESSAGES This is a high level discussion board for solving ongoing, day-to-day relationship conflicts. Members may appear frustrated but they are here for constructive solutions to problems. This is not a place for relationship "stay" or "leave" discussions. Please read the specific guidelines for this group.

[guy4caligirl]

Hi and welcome , please start by giving this board the reason that brought you here and you will get help ... .

Or start reading posts in order to understand what's this is all about .

[Lucky Jim]

Hey tryingtolearn, Do you have any specific questions or problems that you would like us to comment on?  We really get it when it comes to BPD.  LJ

[livednlearned]

Hi tryingtolearn21,

Are you in a push/pull with your partner at the moment? It can be confusing sometimes, not knowing if you are in or out of the relationship. People here understand, and we'll walk with you through it when you're feeling ready to post more.

LnL