MY HUBBY STRUGGLES TO KISS AND HUG

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Trying to understand but I am getting exhausted.  I can't get a hug or kiss if I don't initiate. He said he finds it difficult to hug and kiss me as he isn't attracted to me and never was. I asked him why he married me and he said "I don't know!"  During our wedding our witnesses cried listening to the vow he made.  It was really beautiful! After a few weeks his vows were buried at the deepest part of atlantic ocean! He is very consistent with his rudeness towards me.  He remembers all my flaws. He rarely appreciates and he complains on almost everything! He is making me feel our relationship is a mistake and that marrying me is a mistake.  I don't know how to survive this as I died many times because of his sharp tongue.

[in_dire_need]

Trying to understand but I am getting exhausted.  I can't get a hug or kiss if I don't initiate. He said he finds it difficult to hug and kiss me as he isn't attracted to me and never was. I asked him why he married me and he said "I don't know!"  During our wedding our witnesses cried listening to the vow he made.  It was really beautiful! After a few weeks his vows were buried at the deepest part of atlantic ocean! He is very consistent with his rudeness towards me.  He remembers all my flaws. He rarely appreciates and he complains on almost everything! He is making me feel our relationship is a mistake and that marrying me is a mistake.  I don't know how to survive this as I died many times because of his sharp tongue.

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[holycow123]

How long did you date before getting married. Was he this way before you got married. How long have you been married?