HELP Can't Find but Desperately Want a Book Referenced Here

[ReclaimingMyLife]

Hoping one of you can help!  Please. 

Within the past 60 days or so, someone referenced a book here on families or parenting about not fixing the situation.    Seems like it was about not fixing things for a family member... .getting out of the middle... .letting people be responsible for themselves.  I think there was a comment that this book helped the person's family more than any other.

I have searched through book reviews on bpdfamily but cannot find it.  I think it may have been highlighted at the top of this board.  I have been trying everything I can think of on Amazon too.  It is not one of the often-referenced books here but it looked SO good for parenting any kind of kid.  Even looks good for "parenting" myself!

Fingers crossed someone can help!

Thank you

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[hope2727]

Not sure what the book was but could it have been stop care taking the borderline or narcissist? Its the only one I can think of off hand.

[Skip]

We have several book lists:

I think you are looking for: https://bpdfamily.com/book_review/gary_lundberg.htm

These are our top book endorsements: https://bpdfamily.com/content/book-reviews

Here are older staff reviews: https://bpdfamily.com/book_review/index.htm

Here are member reviews: https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=33.0;sort=views;desc

When you can find something, try the site map at the bottom of the webpages (and the message-board, except during funraisers).






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[ReclaimingMyLife]

Wow, Skip, very impressive.  I think your first link is it exactly.   You nailed it.  Thank you!