Baffling (non) development

[Lifewriter16]

Hi All,

My BPDxbf texted me last night to apologise for blowing me out a few weeks ago (going NC) saying that he needed to 'bail' because there was a lot going on, but it wasn't just about me. I replied: 'No problem'. I asked how he was and he said he was in a very dark place, which was why he was apologising (he was sensing 'the end' and needed to 'repent'. I asked if he wanted me to pray for him, to which he said 'not really' and that he was just apologising. When I started to end the conversation, he asked me to delete his phone number. I asked why. He said he thought it was best. So he texted me to apologise for going NC and ended the conversation by going back to NC. Sigh!

Love Lifewriter

[C.Stein]

I imagine this will go on for a while, until it doesn't anymore.  You shouldn't let it bother you.   

[Teereese]

I wish no contact was an option for me.

There has to be some contact due to pending divorce and children.

Rarely do I make contact. He tried contact via text and it pissed him off. He was trying to get me to agree to things having to do with the divorce settlement and I wouldn't answer the way he wanted, so he blew up over text.

Recently he has been trying via phone ... .there is no proof of the convo, so again, I won't say much and won't.answer how he wants. He blew up over the phone and told me not to contact him ever again.   Yet he is the one making contact 

Maybe I will get a little break 

He has recently told our daughter to lose his number.   

<sarcasm> Great guy ... .<\sarcasm>