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Author Topic: Documents and more Documents...Lies and more lies...  (Read 481 times)
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« on: July 06, 2016, 05:12:32 PM »

I just went through 426 pages of my exes work history... .all of those sick days, hospital stays, accidents... .it is like reliving the past ten years through his employers eyes... .It was horrible. He was written up in Jan for intimidating an employee and doing "something" on her computer which was caught on the camera... .what did he do? Look at porn or something? Then he didn't lock up the safe and took off. This was New Years eve. Not good... Not sure if they demoted him or not. Nothing there to prove that. It just shows he quit. Also, No record of him and the gf being written up, even though his boss told me it was in there. So strange... .the company said that they don't have all the records and don't want to have to comply... .maybe they didn't. All I know is all his playing poor me is bull. He took out all of his stock money and already has it. I am so mad... .my lawyer needs to get him to pay me back for all of this crap he is putting me through and having to pay for. He sent an e-mail to her today pretending he doesn't know my email again... .that stupid request just cost me a bunch of money. This is horrible!
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« Reply #1 on: July 06, 2016, 06:08:57 PM »

Why did you need to read the work history BH?
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« Reply #2 on: July 06, 2016, 06:25:41 PM »

Why did you need to read the work history BH?

My lawyer is looking to find out why he lost his job as he claims... .He is trying to reduce my alimony payments retroactively. He is also trying to get me to pay him back for Health insurance  and get out of owing me money for that, since he "lost" his job. I was trying to find the part about the women stories I have heard about, since I know when they happened. None of it was in there. It was like looking for a needle in a haystack. He is playing poor me, when all the while he hid assets from me. My lawyer thought that he was fired due to the women... .I figured it was due to something he did or did not do... .It is just showing he quit. That is not good for him- it is for me I hope... .It will be interesting to see how this plays out. In the meantime I am mad because I wanted him to pay for the divorce in full because of his adultery... .but he played poor me and I ended up paying half and loaning him money towards it! Ridiculous when we now know he has money! I am spending money fighting him on this third case now and she claims we will get him to pay me back if we can prove he is at fault. This should be clear now. She doesn't even believe anything he says. I wanted to tell her that when he asked for my email today to send my alimony payments, he was just making an excuse for not paying yet. He has never paid me through my e-mail. Only my phone number in which he does at 4am and I get a text! I asked him not to do that at that time, but he keeps doing it to piss me off I am sure. I just turn the sound down now... .He is such a jerk. He doesn't care that I am paying my lawyer by the hour and I had to borrow money to get through this. I am so over lawyers. I don't know how he is affording his, but I suppose it's from the stock money he got from work when he "retired"... .
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