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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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« on: November 03, 2016, 10:53:32 PM »
D day.

Divorce day. Today I move forward sans my BPD/ NPD ex.

It's a new life. I hand her problems back to her.
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« Reply #1 on: November 03, 2016, 11:11:36 PM »
This must feel liberating.   Smiling (click to insert in post)

Now it's you,  and you and the kids together as a new unit.  I found the feeling of this one of my biggest struggles,  the new life with them without her (living together).

Any plans,  or just taking it a day at a time?  
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« Reply #2 on: November 04, 2016, 07:46:05 AM »
Wow, Moselle. It IS a big day. How are you going to spend it? 

Imagine what joy is to come in your new life !

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« Reply #3 on: November 04, 2016, 07:52:01 AM »
Moselle - congrats!

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« Reply #4 on: November 05, 2016, 02:03:18 AM »
Moselle, congratulations  . You got through it! Wishing you much happiness going forwards.
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« Reply #5 on: November 05, 2016, 11:48:11 PM »
My first days of and after D day, I was numb.  It took some time to sink in that it was finally finished , for the divorce end of things. 
More power to you with the days ahead on inner strength and your once self , evolving.
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« Reply #6 on: November 07, 2016, 05:27:13 AM »
Quote from: Turkish on November 03, 2016, 11:11:36 PM
This must feel liberating.   Smiling (click to insert in post)

Now it's you,  and you and the kids together as a new unit.  I found the feeling of this one of my biggest struggles,  the new life with them without her (living together).

Any plans,  or just taking it a day at a time?  

It seemed quite tough on the girls. Although its been a long time coming. They were distant. My plans are to live a great life. Be excited by my opportunities and give massive and determined action to my dreams. There is much to do  Smiling (click to insert in post)

Quote from: heartandwhole on November 04, 2016, 07:46:05 AM
Wow, Moselle. It IS a big day. How are you going to spend it?  

Imagine what joy is to come in your new life !

heartandwhole

Thanks H&W. I spent the weekend imagining it. Love, intimacy, friendship, career success, being a great dad to my girls. Holidays, fun, laughter.

Time to deliver!
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« Reply #7 on: November 07, 2016, 05:29:51 AM »
Quote from: bestintentions on November 04, 2016, 07:52:01 AM
Moselle - congrats!

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Thanks bi.

It was a big day.

Quote from: Larmoyant on November 05, 2016, 02:03:18 AM
Moselle, congratulations  . You got through it! Wishing you much happiness going forwards.

Thanks Larmoyant. I did make it through! Thank you. Lets go!

Quote from: whirlpoollife on November 05, 2016, 11:48:11 PM
My first days of and after D day, I was numb.  It took some time to sink in that it was finally finished , for the divorce end of things. 
More power to you with the days ahead on inner strength and your once self , evolving.

Thanks Whirlpool. Its dawned on me a few days later, however the excitement is still there. Its time to build!
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