Emotional Blackmail

[Producer]

I was an only child my mum had epilepsy in her adolescence and was seen as the black sheep of the family, she then moved away from them all with me in tow aged just 4 , I lost her 4 years ago and have fell apart after doing research in to why this was allowed to happen, I cannot have a relationship with my children 20 & 11 at the moment because I'm struggling and need some help , I've lost friends and I'm dealing with this on a day to day basis I live in south  Liverpool and would Like some help please appreciated

[sad but wiser]

Dear Producer,
This is the place to come.  It can be eye-opening and sometimes distressing.  It takes courage to look and see yourself and someone you love written here by someone else, and so uncanny how similar the stories can be.  Don't lose heart, though.  You can make it through this.

[HappyChappy]

Hi Producer,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss and would like to help. Many on here arrived a their lowest ebb but have now healed and live full lives. I’m one.  But we would need to know a bit more about your situation. I could guess, but prefer to ask; which member of your family displayed BPD behaviour ? What immediate difficulties are you facing ?  

The good news is I believe your live in a city with resource for BPD, but we would need to know more, if you are happy sharing.