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Author Topic: VIDEO | He got engaged 3 weeks after our break-up ~ Henry Cloud, PhD  (Read 1736 times)
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« on: July 07, 2007, 04:59:35 AM »

Question: I was in a committed relationship for 2 years. One year ago we got engaged. We are now broken up, and he asked someone else to marry him within 3 weeks of our break-up. He is now in therapy and says his insecurities let him to react in an emotional way; emotionally acting out - asking someone else to marry him. He has left me alone as I've requested. I still love him but I'm afraid to even consider giving him another chance. I feel he's already shown his true colors and revealed his character. I'm struggling with thinking that people can change and at this time he's doing the right thing; respecting my boundaries. Should I consider giving him another chance? Can people change?

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« Reply #1 on: July 07, 2007, 03:28:18 PM »

I would have liked to a video of the question and not jsut the answer. A little hard to figure out what's going on.
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