As much as I hate to admit it, I wish she would cycle and go back to loving me.
She's the outward acting, silent, high functioning BPD type.
The only relationship affected was ours, otherwise outwardly it appears she's normal to everyone else.
not to hi-jack your post, i am going through something similar, so i feel your pain, mine, mother of 4 left for a stranger, moved in with him few months and now calling this guy daddy to my kids. atleast you getting to see your kids. mine dragging the kids into the mess. first it was lies that i beat her (Arrested twice, still fighting in court), and now when she is exposed cause i have her audio, admitting her self inflicting injuries, now she dragging the kids that iw asnt a good father.
i understand its very very painful. imagine the guy my wife is posts nothing but sexual messages on his page, that hes having fun, its painful to match when ur technically still married... man they have no remorse, i wonder even if its worth it to bring them back? the thought of having your wife been with another man, its devastating, and soul shattering. im not sure how ur strong enough wanting to bring her back, i still have nightmares for last 3 months
its like, i am the one ended up with her borderlione illness after they leave, not only we were abandoned, and i have borderline thoughts of wanting her back one day and being upset the next, for what she did and being in depression for reckless behavior she carries on. looks like u going through the same, mine is ruthless, been a great wife for 6 years, this year nothing but fights and then i was discarded and replaced.
