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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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Author Topic: Can having ptsd and BPD make things way worse and trickier  (Read 398 times)
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« on: January 14, 2017, 03:32:39 PM »

Has anyone on here had a partner or x who had both of these? If so can having both make things way worse and trickier?
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« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2017, 03:56:37 PM »

Yes - way trickier. My hub has PTSD from his mother who emotionally, physically and sexually abused him, and I was recently diagnosed with Complex PTSD from dealing with his BPD behaviors and abuse. I wish I had some advice for you, but at least know I relate to your situation and that you have a friend in me. You can always private msg me if you like.
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