Back again, with more dreams

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I was on here a few years ago and you were all so helpful and kind. It's tough on this bpd island.

We have had a relatively quiet year or so but in the past week and a half everything has imploded. My daughter and I moved in with my boyfriend a year ago and she has not been happy. She doesn't like him, is rude, doesn't go to school, mostly won't take medication or eat regularly. My son recently moved in with us and she is not reacting well. She tells me she considers him an "opp" and doesn't want him to be here (he is 18, she is 16). I think she wants me for herself.

Everything came to a head the weekend before last when she and my partner had an argument. She accused him of giving her a black eye and the police were called. I was not home but I have cameras in the house and I have known this man for 8 years. That did not happen. The police never came, but she is continuing her accusations and now DHS is involved. They came out and interviewed her, her brother (who was home) and me. We haven't heard back from them (approx one week fin interviews).

Today, she is angry at me because I did not rent an apartment for her, a thing she has wanted since she accused my boyfriend of hurting her. She began yelling at me and then started punching herself in the face over and over again, asking me if this was what I wanted. She is bigger/stronger than me and she was physically preventing me from leaving the room. I ended up calling 911, I want them to come and take her to the hospital. I'm so tired of the constant drama, the accusations, the manipulation. Idk if the police will actually come but I truly believe she is a danger to herself or the rest of us.

I love her so much and this breaks my heart but she needs help. She caused so much chaos here, but I always feel so conflicted. 

[Halcyon_days]

I was on here a few years ago and you were all so helpful and kind. It's tough on this bpd island.

We have had a relatively quiet year or so but in the past week and a half everything has imploded. My daughter and I moved in with my boyfriend a year ago and she has not been happy. She doesn't like him, is rude, doesn't go to school, mostly won't take medication or eat regularly. My son recently moved in with us and she is not reacting well. She tells me she considers him an "opp" and doesn't want him to be here (he is 18, she is 16). I think she wants me for herself.

Everything came to a head the weekend before last when she and my partner had an argument. She accused him of giving her a black eye and the police were called. I was not home but I have cameras in the house and I have known this man for 8 years. That did not happen. The police never came, but she is continuing her accusations and now DHS is involved. They came out and interviewed her, her brother (who was home) and me. We haven't heard back from them (approx one week fin interviews).

Today, she is angry at me because I did not rent an apartment for her, a thing she has wanted since she accused my boyfriend of hurting her. She began yelling at me and then started punching herself in the face over and over again, asking me if this was what I wanted. She is bigger/stronger than me and she was physically preventing me from leaving the room. I ended up calling 911, I want them to come and take her to the hospital. I'm so tired of the constant drama, the accusations, the manipulation. Idk if the police will actually come but I truly believe she is a danger to herself or the rest of us.

I love her so much and this breaks my heart but she needs help. She caused so much chaos here, but I always feel so conflicted. 

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Halcyon_days]

Title should read "Back again with more drama "