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« on: March 21, 2017, 01:39:45 PM » |
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Some of you may already know my story.
As soon I was ready to take him to court because he was taking too long to sign the agreement, he finally did! I was informed today that I officially have sole custody! After four months of waiting for him to sign the agreement. (Word is he was seeing A psychiatrist to determine if he is a suitable parent and it obviously did not work in his favour)
Thank you all for your support and the support! And will need in the future.
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« Reply #1 on: March 21, 2017, 01:49:48 PM » |
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Wow! Congratulations. That will make life easier.
Does he have visitation?
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« Reply #2 on: March 21, 2017, 01:54:55 PM » |
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Wow! Congratulations. That will make life easier.
Does he have visitation?
Thank you! Yes, supervised |
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« Reply #3 on: March 21, 2017, 02:03:52 PM » |
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 Sweet! What a relief! Now go enjoy some time with your son  Panda39 |
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« Reply #4 on: March 21, 2017, 02:08:18 PM » |
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Sweet! What a relief! Now go enjoy some time with your son Panda39 Thank you! I sure will! |
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« Reply #5 on: March 22, 2017, 01:53:41 PM » |
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Congratulations!
Great work on protecting your son
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« Reply #6 on: March 22, 2017, 03:48:08 PM » |
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I know this must be such a relief for you.
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« Reply #7 on: March 22, 2017, 04:42:53 PM » |
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Congratulations! Hope you enjoy a well deserved break. And then start working on how you want those supervised visits to look like.
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« Reply #8 on: March 23, 2017, 08:19:40 AM » |
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Congratulations!
Great work on protecting your son
Thank you! I'm glad it over for now |
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« Reply #9 on: March 23, 2017, 08:21:56 AM » |
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Congratulations! Hope you enjoy a well deserved break. And then start working on how you want those supervised visits to look like.
Thank you so much! |
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« Reply #10 on: March 23, 2017, 08:24:41 AM » |
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I know this must be such a relief for you.
Oh my goodness it is! |
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« Reply #11 on: March 24, 2017, 10:53:35 AM » |
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That's awesome!  And how is your personal relationship evolving? Is there any contact? Threats? Does he regulairly see his son? |
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« Reply #12 on: March 24, 2017, 11:40:03 AM » |
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That's awesome! And how is your personal relationship evolving? Is there any contact? Threats? Does he regulairly see his son? He's in a new relationship so all his attention is there, so he doesn't see his child. He wants to be friends but I see he still has no boundaries so I stay away. I would say for now he's really "busy" so let stress for me to deal with. I don't think we will ever be on normal terms |
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« Reply #13 on: March 26, 2017, 04:27:31 PM » |
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He's in a new relationship so all his attention is there, so he doesn't see his child.
I don't think we will ever be on normal terms. It would probably be wasted effort to change things, so accepting things as they are would be wise. Congrats on getting an order without too much conflict and where your child's future looks to be full of daisies and sunflowers. |
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« Reply #14 on: March 26, 2017, 07:56:30 PM » |
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It would probably be wasted effort to change things, so accepting things as they are would be wise.
Congrats on getting an order without too much conflict and where your child's future looks to be full of daisies and sunflowers.
I agree! I will continue to be The consistent parent and fully enjoy being a mother!, Thank you! Words can't describe how I feel! |
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« Reply #15 on: April 03, 2017, 03:20:52 PM » |
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That is wonderful news. Wow! May I ask how you accomplished this? I wish I could do the same but I truly can't see him ever giving in on the kids.
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« Reply #16 on: April 07, 2017, 09:56:39 PM » |
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That is wonderful news. Wow! May I ask how you accomplished this? I wish I could do the same but I truly can't see him ever giving in on the kids.
I wanted to take him to court but he asked if we can do a separation agreement instead. I agreed. He was A huge pain during the whole process. I felt like he was stalling. No he was!. Everything that I wanted under Greeman he made sure even the smallest adjustment that he made a huge deal about it and try to make the agreement virtually impossible. (We live in different countries) there was times where he said he deserves full custody . When we finally figured out the agreement, my lawyer sent it off to his lawyer, he took almost 4 months to sign it. Literally two days before he finally signed we (me and my lawyer) decided to start a court process. Word is the reason why he took so long to sign the agreement is because he was being evaluated by a psychiatrist to "prove" he is a fit father because he really thought he could handle being an actual full time parent. And the results weren't in his favor |
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