new here, married to an alcoholic BPD

[Depression = 72% of members]

New here.  found this site from the walking on eggshells book.  Reading through this book explains so much of my life.  her actions, our fights, my responses and thoughts.  I am pretty lost.  Well, I am better now that I am starting to understand.  This has been a long roller coaster ride with the last 5 years and 6 months in particular very hard.  Marriage is hanging by a thread at this point.

[goldylight]

New here.  found this site from the walking on eggshells book.  Reading through this book explains so much of my life.  her actions, our fights, my responses and thoughts.  I am pretty lost.  Well, I am better now that I am starting to understand.  This has been a long roller coaster ride with the last 5 years and 6 months in particular very hard.  Marriage is hanging by a thread at this point.

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[badenergytroll]

Hi, and welcome. 

So many years. You, are a very patient person.