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I just found out my xBPDw dumped her famous "lover". She would've done anything to be with him... .well, she dumped him a few weeks ago... .just like that.
I knew it! Lol
I'm happy... .I found new love. Things are getting better and better for me.
I tried so hard to save my marriage with my xBPDw, but it just didn't work out.
But as for her, I feel sorry for her. I truly do. Why do I still hurt for her after all these years?
I almost feel bad that things are so much better for me and she is still in a disoriented pattern of life. It's sad.
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Re: She dumped the new boyfriend
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Does anyone else feel bad for their ex's when life is good?
Do you still wonder where they are and how they are feeling at this very moment?
Do you find yourselves secretly wishing you could take them in your arms and tell them 'Everything is gonna be alright'... .
Whenever I am happy, I wonder if she is happy!
Then when I realize she isn't happy... .I feel so sad for her!
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I am the same. I dispise her so much right now. But at the same time i feel so sad for her.
We have only been over for 5 weeks. Not much time really. And shes just entered a new relationship. That hurt me. But i know it wont last. I know shes done this to get a reaction from me. But she wont. Again that makes me sad. That she cant hold down a relationship. That she cant tell someone how she feels. That she plays these ganes in the hope someone wil fight for her.
I might be sad now but i know in a few weeks ill be fine again. That one day ill meet someone and have a healthy relationship and be happy. And i know she wont. That makes me feel so sorry for her.
But i tried to help.
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