Was my ex girlfriend a borderline Please read my stort

[Holland24]

Hello boys and girls, i am from the netherlands. i am now 3 weeks single and i want to tell you my story.

she always say to me that im the only one for her and that she never going to cheat.

let's talk first about her crazy jealousy behavior i have a few examples.

 a few months ago we should going out for diner with her family and one day she came to me and said that she was not happy i said why going dinner with youre family that must be nice.   She said she was afraid I would fall in love with her niece. While I never said a word to her niece

Another moment we were driving and they did not look so cheerful so I stopped the car and said what was going on and then she said she thought I had another while I only had her and always be loyal

She was always jealous while I did nothing wrong

another part of the story
She said if she would not have me anymore, she did not want her life anymore and threatened to jump for the train or ride a tree shocked

now  we come to the final part   its now out for 3 weeks so 3 weeks ago her phone rings and it was a message from whatssap a boy texted to her horny p u s y  and she response with that se maybe going to swim that day.

so i said to her who is this boy  she said i did not have to respond to it. So i said to her im going to call him i wanna know who he is and then she said no dont call him  do you not trust me. I said of course i don't  trust this  but the boy dont answered his phone a couple of hours later i whatssapp with him and he said to me that the day before my girlfriend had sex with hime outside in the woods but in the beginnen i thought that he was lying so i said to her is it truth that you haved sex with that boy who texted you then she said  that he lies everyting.  
A few hours later on facebook I sent her back, it's true that you had sex with him when known she said yes yes I've had that was afraid you'd get angry she said she's sorry and that never More would happen and that she was mad at her self.

Her parents never said she had borderline SO MY BIG QUISTION TO YOU ALL YOU ALL READ MY STORY HAD MY EX BORDERLINE ?

i hope my english was good please response people

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[Confusedpe]

Non BPDs can also cheat and be jealous
U need to provide more details I'd say

[Tattered Heart]

It's hard to determine if you pwBPD without an actual diagnosis. Even if she never gets a diagnosis, there were issues that you saw that stemmed from her having feelings of offense or insecurity. The tools and workshops here can help you improve communication with her whether she has BPD or not.

[Holland24]

i have news


I have news my ex girlfriend who probably had BPD said a few months ago that she was going to pass a girlfriend's puppy and then she left for about 3 hours I contacted her girlfriend at facebook and I  asked if that was the truth and this was her answer :     She lies a lot of things I know for a long time
She has never seen simba as a puppy ... and I would definitely not let her fit my dog



   Now I've caught her on a lie again

[Holland24]

ENGELS
I've learned a lot more about me ex first, I heard from her friend that she did not fix her dog but I know now more her friend said to me yesterday that she had a new year's drink at work at December and that  my ex)told her that she felt feelings for her ex and that she found that one more fun than me but she did not want to say anything to me because she did not want to ruin our relationship and she thought that those feelings would go away for that one again Suggests that they had contact from December to May