My fiancé has left me abruptly

[demolishedheart]

My fiancé left me abruptly and won’t talk to me.  She is also bipolar.

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[pearlsw]

Hi demolishedheart,

Welcome to the family here, but sorry to hear this news! I can only imagine this was a painful shock for you. Has this happened before with her? Does she tend to push/pull you?

Your fiancé has BPD and is also bipolar?  How are you feeling? Can you provide more details as to what happened?

take care, pearlsw.

[AskingWhy]

demolishedheart, I am so sorry about this.

The best advice I can give is to not take it personally.  This is not about you but about her.

This is one of the hardest things in a relationship with a person with PDs.  They don't function emotionally like the nons.

Please don't blame yourself for this.