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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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Author Topic: Starting to hate my EX.  (Read 515 times)
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« on: May 13, 2018, 07:19:13 PM »

Nearly two years no contact, she promised me the earth. She failed to deliver, I am not the first.
She is just a serious not right.
Ill or not she knew.
Is the no contact because she is ashamed?
Strangers treat me better.
The things I told her would happen because she had zero control over her children are all coming true.
She made her bed, she can sleep in it.
She is drinking herself to death, her problem.
Her kids dad controls her and she won't stand up to him even with my help, he is a w**ker, I'm not even started let alone finished with him yet. I am angry.
He thinks he won because he succeeded in splitting us up which was his plan.
He is living under a false sense of security,(probably because he thinks I have forgot) my justice will come.
He will not know until it happens.
You need to read my 50,000 word book to understand.

 
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Other
Relationship status: "Divorced"/abandoned by SO in Feb 2014; Mother with BPD, PTSD, Depression and Anxiety: RIP in 2021.
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« Reply #1 on: May 13, 2018, 10:43:09 PM »

The things I told my ex would happen while she was living with me came true. That there would be DV, and that a r/s with an affair partner,  whom she married,  wouldn't succeed. It made no difference,  she plowed ahead.  
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