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Author Topic: Hello, my soon to be Fiancé's wife has uBPD, here to learn how to manage/cope  (Read 1274 times)
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« on: May 13, 2018, 08:43:43 PM »
Hi, my soon to be Fiancée’s ex wife has undiagnosed high functioning BPD. Trying to learn how I can best cope/manage this situation.
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« Reply #1 on: May 13, 2018, 09:53:33 PM »
Hi MichelleW

BPD is quite a challenging disorder and I'm glad you are looking for ways to best manage this situation. What would you say are the main challenges you are facing?

You mention your soon to be fiancée's ex wife is an undiagnosed high function BPD. Why do you believe she has BPD, what are the BPD traits you see in her?

Does your soon to be fiancée (congratulations by the way! Smiling (click to insert in post) ), also believe his ex wife has BPD?

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Are there children involved here?
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