Surprisingly, she is still allowing us to see them this weekend this weekend
This is good. There was no repercussions from seeing them with her ex?
however, she has given us the 'restrictions' of what we may and may not say to them adding that if we indicate in any way that we miss them or ask them to come again, we are 'violating' her rules and, I quote, 'all plans must only be mentioned to me and go thru my approval before discussing them with the kids' unquote. thoughts?
What is this about? Does she feel you are pulling too hard on the kids?
I know you said you are estranged... .what was the fight about?