So this just happened

[Bogel]

Hi All,
This page was recommended by my grad school professor. I have been dating a women with PBD traits for over a year and a half , she visited me last week , informed me she felt strongly she was gay and ended the relationship . I am in recovery from substance abuse myself , and am trying to make the most sense i can of what i have experienced.

 

[spero]

Hi Bogel,

I'd like to welcome you to the forums.  .
Perhaps all this must be very confusing and heartbreaking.

I do believe that as you read the many stories on the boards, there would be similar experieces that resonate with yours. Please do takecare and take as much time as you need. When you feel more ready, we'd like to hear more about your story and experience to help us better respond to your situation.

Yours,
Spero

[juju2]

 

Sorry you are going through this.   There is help here, keep posting.

Someone here has most likely some experience around what you are going through.

Take good care,

j