Impossible after 30 years

[maosim]

Children older and abuse continues, mixed with love and care, but i get blamed, accused of ridiculous things. Succesful guy in the outside with so much darkness and hatred inside. Dr jekkyl and mr hyde. Should i stay or should i go. No chance he will get therapy

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[Kwamina]

Hi maosim

There seems to be a lot going on here.

Could you tell us a bit more about what you're dealing with? What kind of abuse is going on?

You mention being blamed and accused, for what kind of things?

Many members have talked about the masks the people with BPD in their lives seem to wear in different situations and with different people. Based on your description, it sounds like you are experiencing something similar here.

The Board Parrot

[Insom]

Hi, maosim.    Allow me to join Kwamina in welcoming you. 

I can relate to what you said about Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.  I hear that you've considered therapy for him but that he is unwilling.  How about you?  Is therapy something you'd be willing to consider for yourself?  It sounds like you are weighing a big decision, stay or go, and could use some extra support.