Part 1 of this thread is here: https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=334424.0;allI have been still really struggling with everything that's going on. She still comes in and sits next to me and doesn't speak to me, and I don't really understand why she would do that. I think she views the seat as 'hers' and thinks I should move? I don't know. I don't think I will sit in that part of the room anymore. I had thought that we would 'go back to normal' but she is only becoming more distant.
She doesn't speak to me at university, and is suddenly very chatty with everyone else in the class. I messaged her on the way home, asking her if she wanted to hang out the next day - she didn't respond. I was simply trying to be 'normal' with her, and, as she'd said we could 'start again' I presumed this was OK to do so. She didn't respond. A few hours later I just sent a short message, asking her where things were at because she'd said we could start again, and I'd really like to be friends, and that it would good to start moving forwards - she hasn't responded to that, either.
I don't intend to contact her again. I found and am finding this hard because if I'm honest I did believe she would cycle back around but she only appears to be becoming more and more distant, and I think and feel as if perhaps this is for real, now. And I'm actually quite distraught over that.
Uni is about to break up for the summer which means I won't see her at all for a good few months, and that's upsetting. I'd hoped things would be rectified by then. But it doesn't look like they will be.
