Hi desoto918! Welcome to the family!

This is a supportive group and we do have a lot of resources and experience we can share. There aren't really "quick fixes." Things usually take time. But, there are things you can start implementing that may show some results and progress.
Can you tell us a little more about your situation? What are the areas of your relationship that are most problematic right now? What are the boundaries you're anxious to keep?
The details really help us know how to best help you.