has anyone else gone thru losing time?

[mamaof9]

I really want to know if anyone else has had trouble with their BPD spouse putting so
much stress on you that you loose time, like about 4 hours.  I have 2 times now not known what happened and lost around 4 hours.  I was unable to talk or function.  I talked to my husband and he admitted he freaked out on me both times once then from then on he just says I am nuts.  I am not crazy.  Who does this to their spouse?  His Dad was put into the mental hospital many times for freaking out on his Mother. His whole family does the same thing. I could use some advise.  

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[Harri]

Hi.

It could an anxiety response that you experienced causing you to dissociate.  If that is what is going on, and I am not at all qualified to say what it is, you might want to consult with your doctor.  Perhaps a referral to a counselor to find out if it is anxiety and if it is, to arn some coping strategies to help yourself.

Being in a relationship with someone with mental illness can be extremely stressful and getting help to manage that stress is advisable.

Best of luck to you.