Married, Separated, possible divorice

[BPDGRF36]

I am separated from my wife and have left my house and kids for a while to allow some healing.
Wife has accused me of abuse.
I no longer have a place to live and need to move back but I'm concerned about the issues this will cause.

Does anyone have experience with my situation and what was your outcome and advice?

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[LoneRanger307]

Could you tell us some more about your situation? Is your wife diagnosed with BPD or do you suspect it? What happened leading up to her asking you to move out? Have you sought any legal counsel about your rights?

I asked/told my BPDh to move out about a year ago because it behaviors frightened me. We've been living separately since. With a fair amount of therapy, we're finally at a point of discussing living together again.

[BPDGRF36]

Wife was offically diagnosed with some of the behaviors of BPD.
After much internet research I found BPD fits very closely with her behavior.
She started "Splitting" me and I became the bad guy, scapegoat for everything.
Legal counsel? Yes. Not much can be said where I live though. Court systems are very sympathetic for wife's and its an uphill battle for husbands.